Thinking about the Future

Sometimes I like to think about the future. I like to think about what I might be doing in the next five, or even ten years. I hope that by then, I will be going to college again, and either major in Psychology, or take some form of journalism. I also hope that I will be working a different job. I do not want to be stuck at the same part time job all my life, no. I want to move on to bigger and better things, someday.

I also hope that I will be together with my husband, whether it is in England, or the United States. At this point in time, the distance is really starting to get to me, which is a bit worrisome too... V and I both know that we do not want to be stuck doing this long distance thing forever. We both came to an agreement that if he does not get a more stable job by the end of 2013, then he will come to live in the United States. All I would have to do is fill out the form to get the green card, as well as get a few documents from him... and prove that I can financially support my husband without the help of public funds. I guess, it is similar, in a way to how getting a spousal visa for the UK works. Hopefully, if we have to go the United States route, the process will not take long, and he will be accepted into the country. I am thankful that my dad will help out with the financial support, if we do have to go that route. Thank goodness for third party sponsors.

I think I also may want to have a child by that time to take care of, maybe two, but definitely not three! I do not think I can handle three kids.

As for the house, and the location, I would like to live somewhere out in the country. It would be lovely, and a dream if I can own a horse. After all, that is one of my future goals (if I can afford to take care of a horse.) I still have that passion and drive to ride again. I miss horse riding...

These are just the current thoughts running through my head at the moment. I just had to get them out of my system.

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