Marriage is a funny thing sometimes...
So, on February 18, 2012 V and I finally got married. Yup, it is true that V is my husband now. I am glad that it is all over and done with and we can call each other husband and wife now. I am content about it.
It was nice, during the time V was over here for a visit. I mean, we did all that we could together in the state of Connecticut... which isn't much, I am afraid, or at least in the town where we were staying. At least the hotel was across the street from where I worked. It sucks that I couldn't take the whole two weeks off, but at least I got to spend whatever time I had with him. The manager was nice enough to give me the two weekends off, so I could do pretty much whatever I wanted then. We had a grand time, hanging in the jacuzzi, the indoor swimming pool, and going out shopping for little snacks and drinks. It was like we were a normal couple for two weeks. We also went out to a few restaurants, and got to hang out with some of my friends in the hotel room. After we got married, we had a little wedding party in the hotel room, which was great. It was special, and perfect! Much better than those big fancy weddings!
It was sad when he finally had to leave. After he left, I did end up crying a bit, but luckily, I got to hang out with one of my friends right after he left! Now all there is to do is to save up money for a spouse visa, and to apply for it. Hopefully I will get approved, and hopefully I will get to England by next year... that is the goal!
My parents found out about the marriage two days after V had left. I was surprised by their reactions. All they did was give me the whole disappointed speech, then asked for my next plans. I am glad my dad is supporting me in this. My mom, however I think still has a bit of a grudge because I got married being et back, although these past few weeks have been better. It depends what mood she is in.
So, now how is the married life? It isn't much different, or at least it doesn't feel different. My love for V is very much the same, as it has always been. I love him just as deeply, and passionately. Right now, the main focus should be getting my visa, and getting my ass over to the UK to be with my husband.
The one thing that did happen was that there was a little fight two weeks ago, but it is all settled now. I am glad we can communicate our feelings to each other and get arguments settled quickly. Communication is still going to be important in this relationship.
I am done typing for now. The question I leave for this post is, When you got married, what were your thoughts and feelings at the time, and your love is still the same as thy first marriage day?
It was nice, during the time V was over here for a visit. I mean, we did all that we could together in the state of Connecticut... which isn't much, I am afraid, or at least in the town where we were staying. At least the hotel was across the street from where I worked. It sucks that I couldn't take the whole two weeks off, but at least I got to spend whatever time I had with him. The manager was nice enough to give me the two weekends off, so I could do pretty much whatever I wanted then. We had a grand time, hanging in the jacuzzi, the indoor swimming pool, and going out shopping for little snacks and drinks. It was like we were a normal couple for two weeks. We also went out to a few restaurants, and got to hang out with some of my friends in the hotel room. After we got married, we had a little wedding party in the hotel room, which was great. It was special, and perfect! Much better than those big fancy weddings!
It was sad when he finally had to leave. After he left, I did end up crying a bit, but luckily, I got to hang out with one of my friends right after he left! Now all there is to do is to save up money for a spouse visa, and to apply for it. Hopefully I will get approved, and hopefully I will get to England by next year... that is the goal!
My parents found out about the marriage two days after V had left. I was surprised by their reactions. All they did was give me the whole disappointed speech, then asked for my next plans. I am glad my dad is supporting me in this. My mom, however I think still has a bit of a grudge because I got married being et back, although these past few weeks have been better. It depends what mood she is in.
So, now how is the married life? It isn't much different, or at least it doesn't feel different. My love for V is very much the same, as it has always been. I love him just as deeply, and passionately. Right now, the main focus should be getting my visa, and getting my ass over to the UK to be with my husband.
The one thing that did happen was that there was a little fight two weeks ago, but it is all settled now. I am glad we can communicate our feelings to each other and get arguments settled quickly. Communication is still going to be important in this relationship.
I am done typing for now. The question I leave for this post is, When you got married, what were your thoughts and feelings at the time, and your love is still the same as thy first marriage day?
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